The more your husband sees that you are enriching your life, the more attractive you become. The more you accomplish, the more confidence you will feel. Accomplishment goes hand in hand with confidence, and confidence goes hand in hand with how attracted your husband is to you. A couple of days ago I was working with one of my clients, Alessandra, who had come to me asking about how to keep your husband attracted to you.
If you and your husband are no longer confiding in each other and sharing your thoughts and feelings, it will be tough to reignite the love and passion between you. Your husband is cold and distant, and you can tell he’s pulling away from you more each day. And when you do communicate, it’s usually via an argument, or a few muttered resentful words. It’s a long way from the blissful happiness you felt when you first married. You see, when you take time out of your day to spend it with him – it makes him feel as though you really care about the relationship. If you think that you and your husband have lost intimacy or emotional connection in your relationship, a great way to bring it back is to try to make new memories together.
It’s not uncommon for relationships to go through ups and downs, and sometimes it can feel like the spark has fizzled out between you and your husband. But fear not, because there are ways to reignite that flame and get him interested in you again.
Well, despite what you may assume, there isn’t a strong, defining line that separates attraction to someone’s body, mind and personality. The key is to work out the issues, repair your emotional intimacy—and try. These are some of the common reasons women say they’ve lost attraction to their husbands. If you’re worried something deeper is going on and you don’t want to lose your marriage, make sure you’re not subscribing to old, outdated ideas that are hurting your marriage.
Communicate Openly
He’ll appreciate your support, and it will make him feel closer to you. In addition, giving your husband some space can make him appreciate you more. When he has some time away from you, it gives him a chance to miss you and realize how much he loves and needs you in his life. Many couples fall into the trap of arguing in a way that is destructive and harmful to their relationship. Instead of focusing on the actual problem, they go round and round in circles and end up saying hurtful things to each other.
When you do, it may be more routine, and you don’t necessarily let yourself slow down and enjoy it. Yet, just holding hands or hugging for more than a moment can reignite a loving feeling. Staying in touch with your desire and sexuality and sharing intimacy in a personal way can be a powerful way to feel closer to your partner. Let your partner know what’s going on in your mind beneath any chitchat or practical issues.
One of the first steps to getting your husband interested in you again is to communicate openly and honestly with him. Talk about your feelings, what you need from the relationship, and listen to his perspective as well. Communication is key to understanding each other better and reconnecting on a deeper level.
Initiate Intimacy
Physical intimacy plays a crucial role in any relationship, so don’t be afraid to initiate it with your husband. Plan a romantic date night, surprise him with a sensual massage, or simply cuddle up together on the couch. Showing affection and desire towards him will make him feel wanted and rekindle his interest in you.
Focus on Yourself
Self-care is essential in maintaining a healthy relationship, so take some time to focus on yourself. Invest in your hobbies, pamper yourself, and boost your confidence. When you feel good about yourself, your husband will be more attracted to you and interested in spending time with you.
Spice Things Up
If things have become routine in your marriage, it’s time to spice things up. Try new activities together, explore each other’s interests, or plan a spontaneous weekend getaway. Adding excitement and novelty to your relationship will make your husband see you in a new light and reignite his interest in you.
Seek Professional Help
If you’ve tried everything and are still struggling to get your husband interested in you again, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. A couples therapist can provide guidance and support in navigating the challenges in your relationship and help you both rediscover your connection.
By following these tips and putting effort into nurturing your relationship, you can get your husband interested in you again and strengthen the bond between you two. Remember, relationships require work and dedication, but the rewards of a loving and fulfilling partnership are well worth it.
